my aquarius ex seems really depressed I tried to talk to her about it, she joked around, made some silly stories, messaged me at 4 in the morning and then just disappeared no contact since last 8 days, her phone is off .. I know that there is something wrong with her may be because she likes me and I like her too.. but what the hell is wrong with her.. and she is like the most sensible person ever, whats wrong with you aquarians,... why the hell do you drive yourself and the other person crazy
i asked her twice to get back together but she said no, she says she don't trust me but keeps coming back, like a little child... and i know she is very depressed about something but i don't think she will ever tell me, she also don't get along with her family
You might want to post her chart for us. "Aquarius people are very depressed and sensible people...". That is too funny. Her actions and decisions are much more complex and can't be blamed on just one placement. If you know her birth time, birth place, and birth date, go to alabe.com/freechart/ and pull up her natal chart.
heres her chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Aquarius 2.28 Ascendant Leo 0.20
Moon Leo 9.23 II Leo 25.03
Mercury Aquarius 8.02 R III Virgo 23.21
Venus Capricorn 14.43 IV Libra 25.23
Mars Taurus 1.47 V Scorpio 28.42
Jupiter Taurus 26.06 VI Capricorn 0.34
Saturn Capricorn 8.05 VII Aquarius 0.20
Uranus Capricorn 2.59 VIII Aquarius 25.03
Neptune Capricorn 10.44 IX Pisces 23.21
Pluto Scorpio 15.01 Midheaven Aries 25.23
Lilith Virgo 28.11 XI Taurus 28.42
Asc node Pisces 5.14 XII Cancer 0.34
Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Opposition Moon 6.55 -61
Sun Conjunction Mercury 5.34 223
Sun Square Mars 0.41 -70
Sun Trine Jupiter 6.22 21
Sun Opposition Ascendant 2.08 -107
Moon Opposition Mercury 1.21 -289
Moon Square Pluto 5.38 -9
Moon Conjunction Ascendant 9.04 34
Mercury Opposition Ascendant 7.42 -23
Venus Conjunction Saturn 6.38 222
Venus Conjunction Neptune 3.59 217
Venus Sextile Pluto 0.18 222
Mars Trine Saturn 6.18 22
Mars Trine Uranus 1.13 53
Mars Square Ascendant 1.27 -32
Mars Conjunction Midheaven 6.24 60
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 5.05 206
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 2.39 264
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 7.44 45
Uranus Trine Midheaven 7.37 1
1590 -591 999
And you, what are your placements?
This can have an influence on how another person responds or interacts...
Google "Moon square Pluto"
That's a large part of the reason.
oh man "Moon square Pluto" thats the one fucked up aspect
" oh man "Moon square Pluto" thats the one fucked up aspect "
Don't forget the Moon squares Pluto twice a month, every single month. For roughly a whole day every 14 days everyone born on that day will have this aspect. It's not particularly rare.
Yeah you have to consider the whole chart too; was just saying that's one of the major contributors, in that the Moon represents how one experiences her family and her history, how it shapes her subconscious, and hence, her reactions and outlook on life.
Also I just see now that her Moon/Pluto square is not too tight (6*)...
"Depressed, sensible, get hurt easily, never show it..."
Aquarius is not the only sign that does that; in fact that's more of a Cancer thing (except maybe for the sensible part lol); I could say that about Scorpio too. And maybe Capricorn. But Aquarius, I think that would be rare (sensible, definitely; depressed/easily hurt/never show it - not typical)....
"whats wrong with you aquarians,... why the hell do you drive yourself and the other person crazy"
Are you the type that expects (demands) a lot from other people?
tim, have you also ever asked yourself if something's wrong with you?
Ghost girl:oh well yeah it was my mistake too, I also treated her badly and ignored her when she needed me the most, I am a sag guy, once when she was clinging, long time back, I ignored her phone calls and gone out with my friends, I was dead drunk at that time and had sex with a strange girl..but later on I apologized to her for that and she said she need some time, she did forgive me but then after few days she started distancing herself and now she don't give me any attention( she used to give me a lot of attention before) and now she says do whatever you want.. but I am really sorry for all that mess, she says she don't trust me the way she used to. She also helped me with my coke addiction but now she thinks that I'm just a fucked up guy, I really miss her now I feel terrible
hello! As an Aquarian woman, I understand exactly where she's coming from. Sag guys drive all women crazy (except perhaps for Sag women. I don't know how intimate the two of you were (interpretation: how committed to each other), but I'm guessing she thought you were more committed than you actually were.
Here's the problem: Sags (especially the menI) have something I call "Sags not being there" -- I don't know what it is about Sags, but you just have a habit of "not being there" when someone needs you. I don't think you do it deliberately. I think you just have so many people in your life that you just "forget" about others or you can't prioritize or you don't prioritize the way "normal" people prioritize in a "normal" relationship. Relationships with Sags are Never "normal." She needed you. Your friends "needed" you. You got drunk. A strange girl "needed" you. Now, a normal person would put his girlfriend's needs first but it seems like Sags are incapable of prioritizing like a normal person. It's almost like the last person you see is your priority. Almost out of sight, out of mind.
Now, don't take this personally. Sags are amazing people. But most "normal" people don't expect their boyfriend to sleep with a stranger just because he gets drunk.
As an Aquarian woman, I understand how much it took your girlfriend to trust you enough to love you and, especially, to show you her vulnerable side. We Aquarius women are pretty independent. We're pretty sensible. It's a big step for us to trust someone. You blew it. Of course, you apologized, but it seems Sags are ALWAYS apologizing. After a while, it gets old. Women start to wonder why Sags don't just watch their behavior in the first place so they don't have anything to apologize for. But then that would be contrary to Sag's nature.
Now, the real problem here is ALL Sag: you want what you don't have. You can't reach her, you're afraid you've lost her, and that is driving you crazy. You want her. You want her because you can't reach her. That's what happens to Sags who just don't appreciate what they have and always looking over their shoulder at the next, better thing.
Do this girl a favor: leave her alone and let her get over you. Maybe she'll find someone more dependable...like a Leo or an Aries.
Yep, broken trust is quite a killjoy.
yeah I know its not the first time that I screwed everything but, she once said she loves me more than I think and I am the only guys she felt that karmic relation (in the beginning), so if she loved me before she still loves me now, and if she loves me she should take me back but things got so much worse now and I feel like I have lost the person who is so true and genuine, its hard for me to let her go,and now she says nothing can happen now and we can still be friends, but now she don't even treat me like a friend, she ignores me and don't share a thing with me
"whats wrong with you aquarians,... why the hell do you drive yourself and the other person crazy"
well...this is very interesting. I think that's me but too bad I can't help you because I myself do not know why either. For my case I think I just need love, just show her some love that might help. I think it's because of my insecure nature that make me feel that way. Maybe it's just a movie.
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Have you observed that aquarius people are very depressed and sensible people and get hurt easily but never show it?"
Yes, one aquarius friend of mine always masques her misery. Once something really terrible happened to her, and she acted even extra hyper and excited in front of people. She didn't want people to see her sad, but she cried alone madly. I'm not sure if it is her aquarius sun or scorpio ascendant that makes her so.
All air signs generally hide their emotions, but yes Aquarius is considered the most uncomfortable expressing their feelings.
It's a good and healthy policy to walk quietly way from anyone too obsessed with astrology.
Regardless of their sign or rationalizations.
"It's a good and healthy policy to walk quietly way from anyone too obsessed with astrology.
Regardless of their sign or rationalizations. "
"It's a good and healthy policy to walk quietly way from anyone too obsessed with astrology. "
Afraid they might see straight through you and know all your ugly and deep parts?
More like the losers obsessed with astrology in an unhealthy way are most often found chained to the internet, obsessed with defending a really sad distortion field.
Kinda like religious folk: deluded.
I find it both sad and offensive.
But feel free to continue with your delusion amidst your herd of cats.
Mmmmm,..ok,but only on monday an every third tuesday.
Oh never mind, you're a troll.
IR a troll?
Your behavior is really exceedingly similar to that of a born again Christian.
Do you have any AstroScripture to impart as a defense of said behavior pattern and lop-sided perspective?
The cats are calling.
we should get a moderator
You have Jesus, I mean Ptolemy to protect you!
Jesus freaks; astro freaks...kissing cousins.
"It's a good and healthy policy to walk quietly way from anyone too obsessed with astrology"
Thanks for dropping by then. See ya! We're all too obsessed with astrology, so I guess you better make your exit.
"We're all too obsessed with astrology"
This is an inaccurate statement.
Paul: you're an AstroFreak and you can't see clearly.
Admittance is the first step in recovery: once you make that acknowledgment, we can find a treatment program that will assist in your recovery.
"Admittance is the first step in recovery"
Practice what you preach
I don't suffer from AstroTardation Syndrome Dark Fairy.
Perhaps you and Paul can go together earnestly hand in hand and be cured of said plague then glom onto something else to take its place, say, like...The Secret...or knitting.
Gotta keep the hands busy lest they find themselves wandering into the tingly bits unmentionable zone.