Aquarius's ideas???

topic posted Sun, February 22, 2009 - 8:58 AM by  water
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Hi im actually a cancer sun but after dating an aquarius for a year and feeling like mind, feelings, friendships were the same I looked it up and found out information from books and online, My friendships especially were that of an aqua. and even more scary I am sooo much of an aquarian in love and relationships and also life in general.
So I have been reading non stop for the last 2 weeks every zodiac, astro, or quiz i could find in books and online and finally for the first time ive realised that yes i am a cancer in someways, but i can nearly tick every single box for an aqua..In one book and a few sites i even fit features and body.
My cancer is the side of me when my emotions but my insides when im myself and happy and being true to my personality is an aquarian. But i always feel guilty for wanting to be the real me so I hide my true self.. cancerian!!! Relising I had more aq male friends than i thought id come to relise we were so similer.

After using a free chart online I realised that the only aqua I have in me is my 6th house, ceres and my lilth in AQUARIUS???
My mother is gemini and father a cap.
All my friends or best mates are air signs apart from a Pisces and a sagitarius.My opposite is more leo than cap.. but leos some are cool and have dated 2 and some just brush me up the wrong way..

My birthdate may not be correct so maybe theres more aq in my sign.. Does anyone know of any good aquarius sites, books with more info..and how would ceres 6th house and lilth be such a strong combo??? , thanks.. confused...
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    Sun, February 22, 2009 - 9:18 AM
    "My friendships especially were that of an aqua. and even more scary I am sooo much of an aquarian in love and relationships and also life in general."

    Do you have an example of what you feel was Aquarian about these? Or perhaps characteristics you feel relate to Aquarius or characteristics you feel are of the Cancer variety? How do you feel a Cancer or even an Aquarian would approach friendships, love, relationships, life and how is that similar or different that the way your feel you approach them?
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      Sun, February 22, 2009 - 10:39 AM
      Well, ill just do friendship and relationships in regard to your question.....my closest friends and people I admire are Libra's and gemini.. but then again my mother is a gem and my grandmother a libra.. My best and closest friends are both these also. Not by choice just the way its turned out.
      I seem to feel at home in the company of Libra's especially. Even though Gemini's can be pains sumtimes I still think there funny and are good company. I love the way they deal with life in general.. but i have gem in my sign alot also... its my 'midheaven' . I seem to get on with most people and attract all types of people all my friends are from different groups different types of people.
      Im not sure of other gd friendships for aqua's but my other friends are Pisces.
      Im more of a logical person.. But in general relationship wise. As much as want a relationship and true love, I just feel like I know what I want ... as good looking and as sweet and charming as all the guys that come around.. i try to love them and settle down but i feel like there's something else and more. Im a free spririt in life and love to fidn sumone similer, no need to say relationship staus just togtehr like friends, no jeolosy it just happens as it goes.
      I get very claustrophobic if they like me to much. I get attention which I love but even if i say yes i like you.. hmm part of my brain knows there not the one.....I get put of even if they are my ideal guy. I hate people getting to comfy or too cosy when they feel they no all of me. I'd rather a deep matching mind and soul than a perfect prince charming. As lovely as that would be aswell.
      I have to feel like im free to feel comfortable. (in all of my life that is)
      Relationship wise even if an understanding guy comes along, who is caring and perfect to most girls.. looks charm, heart, good in bed, etc. even perfect gent to some If he doesn't understand my mind, desire inlife i guess there's a part of me that wants to say nah....Hmm and even if he does.. I could go into such detail but id write way to much

      But my cancer bits.. Are intuitive, I like my dreams, my mind is often elsewhere and thinking of the unseen i guess....worrying about my family and loved ones is abig thing and an inferior complex sumdays...being comphy and nostalgic aswell.. which i know isnt that of an aqua.....and then my creative side also. But its hard for me to separate the 2 as im known as a bit of anutter .. unique i guess.. in a good way but i dont know if that is a cancer. Unfortunalty I dont have any close friends who are cancer, they grate on me a little..... So its hard for me to compare myself. BUt the male aquarian friends and libra friends I have.. make me genuinely feel sane... No questions asked when i do things, they get it too! Im not odd, my dreams or desires or flighty ways are not looked like im '"being silly'"
      I know this isn't a trait of an aqua but i need fresh air.. dry radiator indoor heat stifles me... When life gets to much i need to be able to get out and see the world... go for a walk, get wet in the rain, see people living. Just get outide .. drives me mad if I cant go sumwhere even if i have no reason too go...and I feel back on track. Unfortunately a 9-5 is hard for me as again i feel like im stuck being like everyone else so have to move on again.. its negative for me always feeling like i want to change and do something else ... it doesn't make life easy.. I hope this answers your question...I mean i could just be generalising and but reading about aq's also i finally can say oh its ok to be me as odd as that is :)...
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    Thu, March 5, 2009 - 6:55 AM
    Hi water,

    How sure are you of your birth time?? Do you have a birth certificate with the time on it?? I ask becacue the birth time is essental for locating the rising sighn and house placements in a chart. Maybe your aquarius rising(first house starting in the sign of aquarius)?? That would definatly make you relate to and experiance aquaraian energey.

    Just a thought....
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    Thu, March 5, 2009 - 7:38 AM
    I imagine if one tends to be around certain dominant signs a great portion of time one would likely reflect some of the same characteristics and personality traits. At least this is what I've noticed about some of my relationships. One thing to keep in mind might be that the others you are around also absorb and reflect some of your natural characteristics and traits, kind of like a harmonization dance or song.
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      Wed, March 11, 2009 - 6:19 AM
      Hi everyone thnks,

      Yeh I agree Isaac I should probably find out my exact time as my dad isnt sure. But I do know i was born in the morning so im guessing thats probably not near aquarius for rising?

      its really interesting as ive tried to shake it off but on recently meeting a virgo I seemed to fit his past aquarius relationships.
      Im so confused! Because Im unsure that your lilth, ceres and 7th house could have such a strong influence on the rest of your habits etc.

      I wonder what time I would of had to of been born to get aquarius rising. Im off to check it out :)

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