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Hello everyone, I am new...I have a question, I am a Libra Male with a Aquarius rising ----> she is an Aquarius sun Sagittarius rising and Pisces Moon. We are dating and I want her to get in a committed relationship with her and ask her to be my girlfriend. I just want to know any thoughts or experiences that people have with this? Is it a good match? Are there things I should watch out for? Thank you I'm looking forward to your responses!
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Re: Libra Male and Aquarius Female...Is it a good match?
Mon, August 10, 2009 - 1:30 PMHow old are you? How old is she?
How long have you been going out? -
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Re: Libra Male and Aquarius Female...Is it a good match?
Mon, August 10, 2009 - 8:53 PMWe're both currently 19. I'll turn 20 years old early October and she will turn 20 in late January.
We've been dating for 6 months, but I want us to be official girlfriend and boyfriend.
She's been seeing other guys (which was what we orginally agreed upon, bc we weren't serious about each other at first.) But like 3 months into dating her I completely stopped seeing other girls, because I am head over heels in love with her! She feels like "the one" for me. I read all the websites on compatibility, I just want to know what people's experience are with this relationship personally or through observation. don't know if i should ask her for a serious relationship, or if i should run aay while i still can! Thanks! -
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Re: Libra Male and Aquarius Female...Is it a good match?
Mon, August 10, 2009 - 9:36 PMBefore you go popping the question about going steady "seriously," why don't you ask her in a really down to earth and genuine way how she feels about you two together and about you.
Be prepared to answer the same question (s).
Sort of like: "Hey there beautiful, I was wondering what you think about how we're doing together?"
Something or questions to that effect.
Listen to her: listen for what's she's saying and what's she's not saying; what is she expressing verbally as well as non-verbally.
It's really important for you to listen and read the "clues" she's offering you.
Then you may - or may not - start discussing a more serious trajectory with her.
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Tue, August 11, 2009 - 9:45 PMthank you for your input, i really appreciate it!
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Sun, August 16, 2009 - 11:27 AMHeck, why dont you just ask her, if she thinks of you as boyfriend and girlfriend.
And for heaven's sake listen closely and dont try to change what she says to suit your self. If you're lucky maybe it'll involve a simple response, unless that's not what you're looking for.
Reading about compatibility is one thing, experiencing it is quite another thing entirely, but then you'll be learning this as you go along anyway.
Personally, I'd ask myself, why I felt like running away, if I am supposely looking for a serious relationship with someone specific.
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Tue, August 11, 2009 - 4:49 PMThis is interesting. I was deeply involved with a Libra man and I'm an Aquarius. We were awesome together. I felt he was my other half, completely!! I believe I have a blog about our experience.
But, he's an alcoholic and there's no dealing with a man who drinks 15 or more beers a night. Funny thing is, our relationship, with an engagement, lasted 7 years. Yep, I was that connected with him. But our arguments got worse, his cheating got ridiculous with this one woman and all I got out of the whole deal was fat from drinking beer WITH him.
Libra's, Aquarian's and Gemini's seem to mold beautifully together. That's what I look for. I believe you will have a lasting relationship with this woman. Deeper than anyone could imagine!
Good luck. I think you're on the right track. -
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Tue, August 11, 2009 - 7:11 PMI'm a Libra woman (although on the Scorpio cusp and with Scorpio Rising) and it's always Aquarian men for me. I do fantastic with them. Libra/Aquarius is supposedly a perfect match, but I've met plenty of non cuspers who didn't do well with Aquarians.
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Tue, August 11, 2009 - 9:44 PMThank you for replying! From what I heard from my guy friends is that most Aquarian women are huge players who love nothing more than to play mind games. So i guess i am a little afraid. Aquarian women are the heartbreakers of the zodiac! I just don't want to commit to her and ask her to commit to me and then have her jumping ship suddenly leaving me heart broken! -
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Wed, August 12, 2009 - 8:13 PM* most Aquarian women are huge players who love nothing more than to play mind games. *
This is so untrue!! There is nothing I hate more than mind games. It's one of my pet-peeves, along with not liking gossip, liars and butt-kissers. And as far as being a "player", this is a crock too. People may take us that way but if you've read ANYTHING about an Aquarius woman, which I really don't think you have, you'd know that we have a lot of "friends". It's the rest of the zodiac that just don't get it with us. We are friends with many people and 3/4 of the time people take our "friendship" as 'WE WANT THEM'. Nope, not the case.
I'm not even going to comment any further. You need to deb into the Aquarius readings. You might just understand us a bit more. -
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Fri, August 14, 2009 - 8:21 PMI think Aquarian women are just as inclined to play games or not play games as any other woman, or any other sign.
Whether or not we call it a game or not, perhaps an Aquarian woman might be more inclined to fuck with yer head a bit to see if you have anything rolling around in there.
As an Aquarian, I can't imagine a bigger turn off than being with someone who is not very bright or simply unaware/unconscious. -
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Fri, August 14, 2009 - 9:47 PMUm.
Would you call it playing games, if the girl thought she really did want you, right from the start...
But then along the way you proved to be many steps behind her, and act arrogant towards her,
which made her decide to dump you coldly?
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Sun, August 16, 2009 - 5:29 AMMaxwell: "Thank you for replying! From what I heard from my guy friends is that most Aquarian women are huge players who love nothing more than to play mind games. So i guess i am a little afraid. Aquarian women are the heartbreakers of the zodiac! I just don't want to commit to her and ask her to commit to me and then have her jumping ship suddenly leaving me heart broken!"
You realize that Libras are also known as game players and heartbreakers. Aquarians (if they have a strong sun sign) will tell you the truth even if it hurts your feelings. "I'm just not that into you." "Yes, I did have sex with that person but I wasn't committed to you anyway so what's the big deal?" "I like you and I like to have sex with you but I don't love you." Those are statements my Libra friends come crying over. And of course it begs the question of why the Libra was reading things into the situation when that is so obviously not what was happening? If anything, a strong Libra Sun is the one who will convince themselves that this is all hearts and flowers and that any attention must be love. They love to spin the romance (and most of it lasts about five minutes and is as deep as a mud puddle from what I've seen). A typical description is that Libras are in love with love and I've seen that a lot (and have known tons of strong Libra Suns over a long, long time). That's why I say that Aquarius and Libra are supposedly a perfect match but although I like them as a cusper, most strong Libra Suns think they are way too harsh. (No self respecting strong Libra/Scorpio cusp, especially one with a Scorpio rising, is ever going to think another sign is too harsh because Libra/Scorpio is considered the cusp of criticism and they don't see truth as harsh.)
I also agree with the one poster who said Aquarians have lots of "friends" that many people read as sexual partners. Very true. If this woman you are with is a strong Aquarian (look at the chart) then ask your questions to her. You might get your feelings hurt but you'll know the answers. If she says "I owe you nothing" then you've gotten your answer and you need to move along. -
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Sun, August 16, 2009 - 11:05 AMAs an aquarian, I dont get along well with libra, unless I'm related then I'll put up with the headaches involved.
The libras I've known like to keep their illusions and often dont appreciate reality checks.
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Mon, August 17, 2009 - 12:22 PMGames, what games, please provide an example of said gamage, okay. Danke.
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Mon, August 17, 2009 - 1:46 AMOh goodness, I could go on and on about my experience with a Libra guy. He was almost a Libra/Scorpio though with lots and lots of Scorpio in his chart, so maybe that's why it went to hell. With that said, I DID wish it could've worked out. I felt a real connection with him although for some reason he could talk forever with others and barely said a word around me... but I really fell for him, and then he ran for the hills right after we made it "official." So... yeah. Oh well, I got over it.
Anyway, with that said... *I* am actually an Aquarius with a Sag rising like the girl you're after, and knowing that you've got an Aquarius rising, I think these placements mean very very good things for you. Chances are she wants to be with you. That's my guess, given the information you've provided. My moon is in Virgo, not Pisces, but Pisces is a very dreamy and romantic sign and that paired with her Sag rising (although it makes me crave extra space even for an Aquarius, I think it makes me in love with love as well) will also work in your favor.
So I say: go for it! Although, I would recommend you asking her the questions other responders mentioned. She'll probably be completely forthright and honest about it (Sag makes me blunt), so do LISTEN to what she says and not what you wish to hear.
The only thing is that, being 19, I don't know how much relationship experience either of you have, but when I was that age I was much more afraid of hurting people's feelings (I still am, but I'm better at being tactful and assertive about it now), so watch for cues and body language.
If she shifts uncomfortably and looks around as she answers/before answering, then she's unsure. If a huge grin spreads across her face and she can barely contain her excitement, then you're on the road to loooove. :)
And finally, again, with a Sag rising/Aqua sun... we need lotsa space. I mean, I'm affectionate with my guy when we're together and I'll be silly and cute or whatever, but sometimes I'm just in my own world. And when I'm NOT with the guy I'm dating, I tend to be very aloof and again, in my own head... which comes across as me not being as interested (to some) and just forgetful. This is just how we are. Our mind is on a million other things when we're alone, and if you don't take offense to that and allow her the space she needs, she will be forever yours! Assuming everything works out in the asking her out/relationship questions stage, of course. Hehe.
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Wed, August 19, 2009 - 8:45 AMGive her space,,,and take a hold of your self,,,
both of you are nineteen and its the time in your lives to explore the world,
People gravitate toward each other for many reasons and companionship
is usually at the top,,,so when one person wants closeness and the other wants distance then
you're trying to hard, and all this lets get serious exclusive relation will make
you alone,,,
develop your own life and then you'll have something to offer another person,,,
theres 6 billion people on this planet,,,your neediness will drive her toward
others,,,shes probably fucking someone right now , no strings attached,
just to get some relief ,,,,
when you are more independant then maybe she'll want closeness again.,
get some hobbies, go out and date,,,maybe if she sees you with someone else then
she'll wonder what they see in you, and maybe she'll take another look,
maybe she would rather have friends she can see as she sees fit without
your seriousness...maybe you can be a friend, have some benefits and
have a live and let live attitude,,,either you two get along or you don't,,,
bringing up a serious relation crap when you know she's not ready is to
force a choice on someone,,,why would you want someone to be a hostage in a relation,,,
is she the only one in town ? get a life,,,practice unhooking some bras,,,
it will make a man out of you,
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