Tribe.net. Local Connections Rexie http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#129bbdec-d198-4a8f-84c9-3f68ef85ee08 2009-09-19T12:06:08Z 2009-09-19T12:06:08Z

So I read through most of this posting. It seems like maybe Isaac has made his decision, and moved on from the silence? However, I felt the urge to still chime in because I'm also an Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Venus like his darling. Ok, if your looking for perspective from someone with a similar astrological makeup...I would say move on in this situation. I can only give you my perspective, and how I would react, and deal with this. From what you've said it seems like she is only interested in you as a friend. Venus in Capricorns are serious about their relationship, and dont usually deal with them frivolously. I know for me, when I have decided on someone, its pretty solid, and I dont play games in ways that could confuse, or jeopardize the relationship. Also I like to show that Im not gaga in love, and am a competent person in life, and in love. But..when I'm not interested in someone, my Aquarian side is more dominant. I flirt, touch, laugh, giggle, and basically shower that person with affection, because I feel that since they are only a friend..I am free to show my true affections without any worries of the repercussions. Yea, I know..sounds ass backwards.

Rexie 2009-09-19T12:06:08Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#62f4c055-603a-410a-935c-939222e9b3b8 2009-06-27T05:59:25Z 2009-06-27T05:59:25Z

I want a status report STAT Isaac! :P

$item.owner.firstName 2009-06-27T05:59:25Z Tinkles http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#25eb2745-8f6e-4880-ad74-54cac247fb9f 2009-06-17T18:33:19Z 2009-06-17T18:33:19Z

Uh, sorry there Isaac, but I misspoke, I am Auarius Sun, Leo Rising/ascendant, with a Virgo Moon. Not an Aquarius sun, with Leo moon. I was typing with too much enthusiam :)

Tinkles 2009-06-17T18:33:19Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#e928fbbb-79b2-45ae-a7a7-59ef36746145 2009-06-16T23:30:58Z 2009-06-16T23:30:58Z

I still think that is a distinct possibility.

amiablehermit 2009-06-16T23:30:58Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#39cf9615-c89c-40b9-8dee-a9147fe40658 2009-06-16T23:25:35Z 2009-06-16T23:25:35Z

cool cuz she is also an Aquarius sun with Leo in Moon =D thanks for your insight im still inexperienced in the overall sense of relationships so this is definately helping me I just wanted to be sure thats shes not using me as a second or as a 'tool'

Isaac 2009-06-16T23:25:35Z Shells http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#ab6a8510-3bc4-4a28-8c6a-b670a4a71b9d 2009-06-13T13:11:44Z 2009-06-13T13:11:44Z

I'm an Aquarius Earth Dog...does that tell you anything?

Shells 2009-06-13T13:11:44Z Shells http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#5d1e27d5-ba72-4c97-95b3-97cd792e89d0 2009-06-13T13:06:44Z 2009-06-13T13:06:44Z

Pisces...hm, there's the problem. We don't get along well with them...at least in MY book.

Shells 2009-06-13T13:06:44Z Shells http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#d34e1a90-8edc-4c05-a12b-fbd04ed8078b 2009-06-13T12:59:02Z 2009-06-13T12:56:01Z

HUNNY...I made that mistake with a Cancer man. He swept me off my feet with his affectionate, loving ways...all his tenderness made me fall. As soon as I opened my dumb mouth about my feelings...he ran. NEVER OPEN YOUR MOUTH...no matter HOW long you have to hold your tongue.

Shells 2009-06-13T12:56:01Z Tinkles http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#5f7bb6bb-1bc9-41ce-9521-b839407c12cf 2009-06-12T05:23:35Z 2009-06-12T05:23:35Z

oh, and BTW, I'm Aquarius sun, and Leo moon, so if you believe it, I'm supposed to see things from all angles. I have found that this is pretty true to my nature.

Tinkles 2009-06-12T05:23:35Z Tinkles http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#76a4f642-a62b-4884-9dd5-eb3a4b3434a5 2009-06-12T05:16:03Z 2009-06-12T05:16:03Z

Listen Isaac, look at the facts, not the astrology. OK, given I'm an Aquarius, so I kinda know what I'm talking about here, but that aside. Chicks need a strong man, you need to find out what her man is providing for her and then either provide the same, or better, simple as that, I PROMISE. She's obviously enamored with you, but she needs to know she'll be alright swinging from this monkey bar to the next. BTW, she's not talking to you on a regular basis BECAUSE she has a BOYFRIEND, so she can't screw up what she has going on right now. I've gone through this, but am now 34 yrs. old, and have gotten over my selfishness. I can still see the need in you, and her, and you're young, so why not.

Tinkles 2009-06-12T05:16:03Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#b206042c-cc67-460a-8227-800c323f361f 2009-06-12T01:57:33Z 2009-06-12T01:57:33Z

have you looked at venus in aquarius? http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/venusaquariuscompatibility.html

$item.owner.firstName 2009-06-12T01:57:33Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#bd09058c-3373-4b53-a5a1-0f6fcbe48570 2009-05-31T06:12:03Z 2009-05-31T06:12:03Z

<Expand into the world rather than shrinking; take risks - informed if possible - rather than running away; hold onto things loosely rather than clinging too tightly. Make sure you get as much formal education and a real world experience as you can> wow thanks! i think you just made things a lot clearer for me with that advice! thx for all your input!

Isaac 2009-05-31T06:12:03Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#184352ae-17b2-4893-a73a-abc8255a65d7 2009-05-28T19:47:02Z 2009-05-28T19:47:02Z

Hi Isaac: I was away on vacation...glad to see you aren't a one poster kind of profile! I have another suggestion for you. Ditch the astrology for figuring out how a person is. Astrology is for morons on the internet and astrology is essentially a symbolic system. The two are well suited for creating a discussion about people/characteristics you don't know in a depersonalized medium that is laden with pedestrian observations and representations. Astrologers are the kind of people who self-identify as empaths and run up huge phone bills from blathering to their psychic friends on that special 800 number, and who spend too much time on the internet pretending like they are connected to the world in a healthy way. Secondly, please don't take the opinions of 83.7% of white American women seriously. This percentage is for those most part a population of blathering neurotic idiots who prattle on in all manner and offer advice that reflects their reality and interests rather than yours. I'd suggest a european model or 2nd or 3rd generation asian or latina for your advice and intimacy needs. So much less bullshit to deal with. However, the New York honky or Northeast region variety are less prone said blathering neuroses. Lastly, you're 22 and just a babe. You're figuring out the world and yourself as best you can. Expand into the world rather than shrinking; take risks - informed if possible - rather than running away; hold onto things loosely rather than clinging too tightly. Make sure you get as much formal education and a real world experience as you can. Ditch the internet for social connections unless you are stationed in Antarctica or something Lastly #2: don't seek advice from people on the internet about these kind of things: they don't know you; they don't know her, and these kind of people are just looking to validate thier perceptions about things they really don't know anything about but who are trying to be helpful. This includes my opinion. Good luck dude: lotsa fish in the sea; lots more interesting things to discover in the world than having online discussions about nothing.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-28T19:47:02Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#867b9f89-59ac-4b73-8404-4589fa67ca02 2009-05-28T11:09:43Z 2009-05-28T11:09:43Z

Sorry ~ had it wrong then.

amiablehermit 2009-05-28T11:09:43Z Sol http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#06f3e793-ecfa-4f8e-b9cf-c53107cbc829 2009-05-27T23:21:02Z 2009-05-27T23:21:02Z

"sdays "should be "says"

Sol 2009-05-27T23:21:02Z Sol http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#0d27877f-5470-45a4-87f4-5bfeb84b723a 2009-05-27T23:20:13Z 2009-05-27T23:20:13Z

I never had a chart up tho in my profile it sdays I was born oct 6 1952,, ,libra sun, taur moon ,scorp venus ,sagi mars,,,etc

Sol 2009-05-27T23:20:13Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#e0bc1ef4-dcee-4fcf-925f-de99e735b669 2009-05-27T16:41:28Z 2009-05-27T16:41:28Z

Seems to me that I remember from a while back that you are a Leo, aren't you, Sol? I don't see your chart anymore.

amiablehermit 2009-05-27T16:41:28Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#0a9b5b27-4cf7-418e-aa83-1e3427f2b590 2009-05-27T16:17:35Z 2009-05-27T16:17:35Z

Are you going to understand everything about a person, just by knowing an individuals sun and venus? Do you feel your Aquarius venus influences your Pisces sun? Would this be an accurate reflection of you as a whole person?

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-27T16:17:35Z ~FaF~ http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#8bfa63e7-6ffc-45fb-9c8f-e67427f7a7fa 2009-05-27T15:54:41Z 2009-05-27T15:54:41Z

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hr0wRxVr30k

~FaF~ 2009-05-27T15:54:41Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#9709f3a8-d857-408f-9edd-9e045df1d390 2009-05-27T15:42:15Z 2009-05-27T15:42:15Z

so following the other plantary traits issue if she has capricorn in venus how would it change of affect her aquarius traits?

Isaac 2009-05-27T15:42:15Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#2a6acfac-a848-44f0-acdc-a4efc7ec1728 2009-05-27T15:32:33Z 2009-05-27T15:32:33Z

I dont believe in friends with benefits either, Faf. Aquarius sun, Venus Capricorn. Though have run into people who thought I would be interested/copacetic with such.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-27T15:32:33Z ~FaF~ http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#a6ec7b3b-cd89-4484-b58b-7167498faba2 2009-05-27T15:22:14Z 2009-05-27T15:22:14Z

Triple Aqua, Venus in Pisces 7th house. I don't believe in "friends with benefits". Please do not assume that others do because you do....

~FaF~ 2009-05-27T15:22:14Z Sol http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#7134bf32-c590-4ab2-a7b9-78a56304e7ca 2009-05-27T15:12:26Z 2009-05-27T15:12:26Z

I agree that a sign isn't to be held hostage by the cliches that are its usual descriptions,,,over the years I've found that when people hear what anothers sign is then they tend to look only for the cliches,,,which is why i tend to never read the newspaper daily astrologies,,, Its interesting to me how people migrate and evolve thru life and relationships are a point of references ,,, how when one person wants closeness and another wants distance, and also when one person is put on a pedastel that the person looked up to ( unless you're wearing a dress and dancing on a table ) is often uncomfortable because now they have to live up to something, especially when they feel like an impostor ,,, anyway its not healthy to put others on a pedastel or be a doormat, unless its part of a game,,, tho each to their own,,,getting back to the original post,,,when I was 23 I wasn't looking for a girlfriend, tho I was a very good friend with benefits with a lot of women,,,,and it just so happened that they tended to be of every sign in the zodiac,,,tho I am fond of the memories with the aquarian women, who happen to make good friends with the benefits,,,tho when they needed to have a lot of attention i would have other things to do,,, I'm too special to be one of snow whites mental midgets ,,, :-)

Sol 2009-05-27T15:12:26Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#46096d21-8d6b-4c0f-8a61-f8ff4101e28e 2009-05-27T14:31:34Z 2009-05-27T14:31:34Z

Actually, I think Sol took care of everything.

amiablehermit 2009-05-27T14:31:34Z ~FaF~ http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#ad4d8cac-cc01-40e7-a6a6-c359af60fc98 2009-05-27T14:27:48Z 2009-05-27T14:27:48Z

WoW I looked , can't believe I missed that....carry on

~FaF~ 2009-05-27T14:27:48Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#4aa9743a-e222-444b-bc7a-aaddfac7a061 2009-05-27T05:07:43Z 2009-05-27T05:07:43Z

I was just thinking about queen bees and worker bees Maintaining pedestal status quo, what a quandry. How about those times when an idol wants to step down/out, or a worshiper might like to step up/in?

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-27T05:07:43Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#4832a42b-7fa4-4319-87e4-7185adca2f53 2009-05-27T05:05:12Z 2009-05-27T05:04:26Z

He said he is a Pisces Sun with Venus in Aqua in his original post.

amiablehermit 2009-05-27T05:04:26Z ~FaF~ http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#c142e2b7-9412-4e76-a0f9-49419fd566e1 2009-05-27T04:05:18Z 2009-05-27T04:04:59Z

Gee I wonder what Sun sign Isaac is? etc, etc

~FaF~ 2009-05-27T04:04:59Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#fdab1656-11c8-4d61-9093-a7080d202b58 2009-05-27T02:42:37Z 2009-05-27T02:42:37Z

Generalizing all aquarian women under one broad umbrella isnt typically a good idea, nor is a good idea to do so with the rest of the zodiac signs. What about the other houses, placements, and planets?

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-27T02:42:37Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#75de3e33-8f82-4a2a-931f-8a8f390b318e 2009-05-26T20:49:11Z 2009-05-26T20:49:11Z

thx Sol after my experience with her i think im starting to understand the 'Queen Bee' part

Isaac 2009-05-26T20:49:11Z Sol http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#deb05ca7-db09-4d35-90bc-229277afe7fa 2009-05-26T14:55:48Z 2009-05-26T14:55:48Z

she likes being in control,,,aquarian women like to feel popular like they're a queen bee everyone revolves around them,,,thats why they like others doing things for them,,, also you can become a friends with benefit, tho don't hang out with her when she feels like shes toying with you,,,make yourself scarce and then she'll wonder what you're up to,,,since you are 23 you should be dating whoever you want,,,tell her some of your stories with other women, aquarian women are voyeurs ,,, and when you tell her how you had sex with someone you just bent over the couch and lifted up her skirt,,,and fucked her like an animal, you'll notice the aquarian woman will get a little sweaty ,,, thats a good sign, and when she is playing with her hair, then tell her a story about how you were at the library studying with a classmate and that she had her head in your lap and you got a chubby and she blew you in the library,,,that will let her know that next time she has her head in your lap that its time for some serious fun,,,just hearing about you take charge will get her hot,,aquarians are like snow white ,,,they like to have their seven dwarves around them,,,don't be one of those mental midgets ,,,, unless you need this type of woman,,,

Sol 2009-05-26T14:55:48Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#1488e35b-3bc8-4e67-beea-277a1c1db923 2009-05-26T06:59:42Z 2009-05-26T06:59:42Z

if that info helps at all

Isaac 2009-05-26T06:59:42Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#c5b87192-0e1e-4768-a3f9-d34553dfd182 2009-05-26T06:58:54Z 2009-05-26T06:58:54Z

well we both are in college and we are both 23

Isaac 2009-05-26T06:58:54Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#2eeb923c-ddaa-4f33-a7ee-867aecfe710e 2009-05-26T01:42:04Z 2009-05-26T01:40:33Z

<sigh> Maybe because he is a boy.

amiablehermit 2009-05-26T01:40:33Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#f97b2be0-20f3-4a7c-9ea7-64dd1007862d 2009-05-25T20:31:17Z 2009-05-25T20:31:17Z

Interesting... I find it interesting that in the inital post, your female aquaintence/friend was referred to as a woman and now you refer to her as a girl.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-25T20:31:17Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#fac22410-d74b-4428-89a9-d1fa1af1cae2 2009-05-25T19:19:52Z 2009-05-25T19:19:52Z

i also forgot to mention this but I made up my mind to stop initiating things with her and trying so hard to do things for her i guess this would slowly make my feelings for her pass so im trying not to call/text her first to see whats up with her and all She did recently texted me first and asked how i was doing but then she suddenly asked out of the blue she asked me if i was interested in this girl i was talking to i told without any BS that yes i was and then she told me not to go out with her Lol i asked her why and she said that she would feel awkward because we are close friends and that she knows the girl im interested in from junior high or something her main concern she says is that she doesnt want her (the girl im interested in) to spread rumors about her (aquarius girl) to her friends (since they have mutual friends) im still confused as to what rumors there could be to spread, but she kinda mentioned that our close relationship could be a problem? then she said "well if you two REALLY like eachother then i cant say much, but just in case...." to me this sounds like she doesnt care for anything other than her own reputation....-_- anyways this is so confusing.....are all aquarius girls like this?!!!! =p

Isaac 2009-05-25T19:19:52Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#8b03a166-293c-41ec-94fa-c7f1c15e1d33 2009-05-25T19:01:25Z 2009-05-25T19:01:25Z

Btw thx agin for all your comments guys!! its been emotionally confusing for me and it really helps that there are people giving me advice! its been clearing things for me bit by bit! thank you!

Isaac 2009-05-25T19:01:25Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#a0229013-0a2e-4934-a270-d2f2cb3d175a 2009-05-25T18:58:28Z 2009-05-25T18:58:28Z

also commenting on the comment that said that once friend ALWAYS friends, does that mean for aquarians once in the friendship category there is never a chance to become lovers?

Isaac 2009-05-25T18:58:28Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#5ac3269f-75c1-41da-8a5f-187a7ec4fe09 2009-05-25T18:56:33Z 2009-05-25T18:56:33Z

also ill be in Korea for this summer but I'll try my best to come back to this post to see whats up!

Isaac 2009-05-25T18:56:33Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#ed1206d6-cd0e-43ce-a3ab-8ce2ebee6bfb 2009-05-25T18:55:56Z 2009-05-25T18:55:56Z

wow thx for ALL your comments!!! im so sorry i havent been able to keep up ive been busy with finals and ive been packing for a trip to Korea from all your posts i think im getting a feel about how aquarius women are yes she is Very active and humaitarian in her flirtacious ways but one thing that concerns me is that does she REALLY see her relationships as being useful or not? =/ I'll be going to Korea this summer and we have planned to meet eachother so maybe this would shed some light to whether she will take some time to hang out with me without being 'useful' to her? also if aquarius women do treat EVERYONE as friends and the same how do they treat those they want to be with like their boyfriend or someone they really love and feel like they cant live without? im starting to become skeptical if that Aquarius women can even get emotionally attached to those they love....

Isaac 2009-05-25T18:55:56Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#ba943ebd-a2b2-446e-a046-8a2a34bd6237 2009-05-24T17:21:11Z 2009-05-24T17:09:43Z

Not that I am monitoring or anything, but our faceless, friendless pal Isaac here has not posted anything since telling us his little story six days ago. I have also not noticed him online during this period, although I admit I have not been lurking around watching him. I am rather getting the suspicious feeling that he has exited the building and is not much concerned with any of our feedback. No doubt he has figured this one out for himself and sees no need to get back to us further about his personal business. Next time, remind me that I know better than to respond to these nonentities and their "my boyfriend"/"my girlfriend" threads. 90% of the time they always go the same way.

amiablehermit 2009-05-24T17:09:43Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#8a008adf-2e61-4542-bd1b-e6b0c7021e12 2009-05-23T14:59:11Z 2009-05-23T14:59:11Z

Also the basis for a nice, cozy passive agressive philosophy. I have seen that in action. It's cool as long as no one is sending mixed signals and/or manipulating other people, but not too cool when they are.

amiablehermit 2009-05-23T14:59:11Z HunnyDu http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#fdf206d6-e70f-405a-af52-61359a04bd73 2009-05-23T04:38:38Z 2009-05-23T04:38:38Z

Im of the mind that Im not responsible for other people's feelings and that other people arent responsible for my feelings towards them. I wish more people thought that way.

HunnyDu 2009-05-23T04:38:38Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#bc65638b-6407-4016-8edb-6f3afbfeb636 2009-05-22T17:59:55Z 2009-05-22T17:59:55Z

Musical interlude ~ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qrriKcwvlY

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-22T17:59:55Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#82befc07-ec79-4d4d-b257-8d527e0c770b 2009-05-22T03:07:20Z 2009-05-22T03:07:20Z

Well, I think a woman needs to take more responsibility for actions that she knows can be easily misinterpreted by someone who doesn't know or understand an "Aquarius woman." My moon is in Aquarius, and I recognize a lot of this, but I also recognize that it is important not to assume that the subtle signals of your actual feelings and attitudes are going to be perceived before some emotional hurt can occur. It is best to be candid and speak it all up front ~ don't expect this of me, and know that I am saying something merely friendly, etc., etc. We ourselves have a responsibility to make ourselves understood and not expect all the work to be done by someone else as though by osmosis or a crystal ball. Not having access to the female in this scenario, I have appealed to the fellow's sense of emotional self-esteem, which seems to me to be on the line in a dubious relationship. Why waste time on the questionable when a better option may be in front of you while you are blinding yourself with some false hope? Btw ~ as is typical, it looks to me that Isaac has less interest in this thread than anyone else here. Certainly I have no indication that he has even read anything here. I hate these "my boyfriend" "my girlfriend" threads. Usually the person who posts this stuff vanishes almost instantly to go do whatever they would have done anyway.

amiablehermit 2009-05-22T03:07:20Z HunnyDu http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#793dd10d-f967-469b-a769-925b6a26f498 2009-05-22T01:57:45Z 2009-05-22T01:57:45Z

Shells is on the money, IMO. I once dated a little puppy dog, and when he started to push to see me more often, etc. I ran like hell.

HunnyDu 2009-05-22T01:57:45Z Shells http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#f1ebd80d-9621-420c-9fc7-ccb1437166b0 2009-05-21T21:31:41Z 2009-05-21T21:31:41Z

Take it from an old Aquarius woman...she's not playing games with you and she's definitely not toying with you. But also and foremost...she doesn't like you the way you want her to or THINK she does. She looks at you as a "friend" ONLY. Period!! We Aquarius women (and men) cherish our friendships terribly, thus all the touching, kissing, hugging and even feely at times!! When we trust enough to consider someone a true FRIEND, there are times when we can go even as far as getting sexual...BUT IT'S JUST FRIENDS! READ about Aquarius...read hard. Learn! We're different but once you have our trust, we're loyal to this friendship. Don't push her, don't make her feel like you want more than she's willing to offer. She'll clam up and run quicker than you can snap your fingers. We love our relationships "free". That means space, lots of it. Don't smother her with gifts either. If she's not feeling that "love" connection, she'll feel like you're starting to take up space. She accepts your gifts now because she feels you are caring for her and she's accepting that if that's what you're wanting to give. If you think about it...is SHE asking for your help on these occasions or are YOU offering and giving it/them to her. Relax. This is the key with an Aquarius. Go with the flow and don't come in with all that "mush" stuff. She wants your friendship. Friendship is #1 to her above ANYTHING else in the world.

Shells 2009-05-21T21:31:41Z petra http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#8db0bf29-a65d-4e01-96c6-729e738dc97c 2009-05-21T08:15:15Z 2009-05-21T08:15:15Z

Hello Isaac, Keeping things in perspective is a very good idea, and i echo the sentiments of not getting too involved with her at this point because shes taken. Also, there is the possibility that you are reading too much into her actions. Aquarian Suns often give off this great loving vibe and super-affectionate/friendly energy to just about everyone....and that can be very easily misinterpreted as romantic interest by those who want to see it as such. When I chat with my fellow aquarian buddies, we've found that others mistake our extreme attentiveness and general thoughtfulness for romance when there are no romantic feelings whatsoever on our end. Its not that we're trying to tease others, we're just being ourselves and can form very close friendships at a high/idealistic level which many people are not used to outside of romantic relationships. Her physical affection can just be friendly, but resting her head on your lap seems questionable to my prudish mind( although, it might not be a big deal to her personally). I kiss friends on the cheek all the time, and theres no romantic or sexual overtones to me...its a gesture of warmth and affection to a friend. Are her flirtatious comments reflecting her fun and witty intellect, or are they intended to seduce you? I make flirty comments all the time, but I think it's because I'm playful and respond to others lightning quick, and it has nothing to do with interest in a person whatsoever. Do take care, because mixed messages are never a good thing...perhaps you could casually make a comment to her like "What would your boyfriend say if he was here right now" or "I'd flirt back, but you have a bf and im not going to interfere with that" and see how she responds. Her Venus in Capricorn could indicate that her friends are often from work, her relationships clearly defined, and that she requires alot of privacy. She is very discriminating in her choice of partner as well. Here's some more info in Venus in Cap : http://astrology.about.com/od/venus/p/VenusCap.htm Also, when you did her essay, did she ask you to do it, or did you volunteer? I mention that because aquarians oftens give to others freely with no strings attached...She may think you are just trying to be helpful/selfless and would appreciate your hard work...She may not be manipulating you at all... but if you feel that you are being used ,than its your responsibility to set personal boundaries to avoid being taken for a ride and/or emotionally hurt. Hope it all works out well for you :) Brightest Blessings! Petra

petra 2009-05-21T08:15:15Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#1b07685a-3f49-41ca-b07f-ae2d064bb961 2009-05-21T05:30:53Z 2009-05-21T05:30:53Z

Gosh, this reminds me of old college days and hanging out with a couple of friends, all in our early 20's we often all sat all snuggled up, this is just what we did, there were no other relationship tones involved just the joy of enjoying the bonding that sometimes happens with building friendships, eating junk food, laughing, soothing, and watching old funny movies. It took time to get to that point where we felt this kind of comfort or companionship. The interesting thing is I see similar to this when I watch a lot of the younger adults at college. Most of the older adults (myself included) dont seem as comfortable with each other, though over time things do begin to ease and familarity grows.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-21T05:30:53Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#ef93dd9c-d770-4ebf-acca-69b09336f7c6 2009-05-20T05:12:31Z 2009-05-20T05:12:31Z

Are you getting your needs met by being in this 'relationship'? Have you bothered to ask her any of the questions or clarify things that may be coming up for you?

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-20T05:12:31Z Luis - Amiable? DONT talk to me http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#1a31381a-1efb-455f-b2b5-3e7433132650 2009-05-20T04:17:48Z 2009-05-20T04:17:48Z

is she getting any benefits of any kind off of you? cause, remember. venus in capricorn = the other one HAS to be useful. otherwise its a waste of time.

Luis - Amiable? DONT talk to me 2009-05-20T04:17:48Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#cc0958c9-b17f-4c33-b22e-3b5f6560c5a3 2009-05-20T03:46:23Z 2009-05-20T03:46:23Z

Basically I fulfilled my basic life's mission a while ago. The rest of this is gravy.

amiablehermit 2009-05-20T03:46:23Z HunnyDu http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#b1ba843d-a3ee-4834-b468-74c4357e96dd 2009-05-20T03:44:44Z 2009-05-20T03:44:44Z

We aquarians love it when someone is more gaga for us than we are for them. We love to be admired!

HunnyDu 2009-05-20T03:44:44Z Jen http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#844c51a3-353d-4b70-b3c2-9b813512e33b 2009-05-20T00:43:06Z 2009-05-20T00:43:06Z

Isaac.. Venus in Capricorn people both male and female look for people that can offer them security.. it seems that.. although she needs you to hlp her at times.. her boyfriend is giving her the security she needs... so you are .. unfortunately being used.. Go with your intuition...you wouldn't be posting if everything felt right...

Jen 2009-05-20T00:43:06Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#f4e0b3ce-aa7b-4a07-b9ab-6805571608a9 2009-05-19T19:28:16Z 2009-05-19T19:28:16Z

Yes Isaac: you can choose the path of a bitter old woman. By all means, steer clear of the possibilities that life offers you and that you can create for yourself. Find a small cave to live in...but make sure you have an internet connection. This way, you can learn so much about the world around your cave without actually having to engage in living your life, taking risks, facing challenges. But oh, the magic of the information age will fill your mind with wonder of things you do not know. And then you can blather on incessantly on the internet like AmiableHermit here, operating from your failures and fears and your regrets instead of as if you've lived a life full of hope and wonder, or at least a life lived.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-19T19:28:16Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#1ffcf384-2ac0-4753-834a-16e786d4a920 2009-05-19T08:13:33Z 2009-05-19T08:13:33Z

Right. If you want to make an ass of yourself, take the troll's advice. She's playing with you all right, and she has a known boyfriend, which makes this whole scenario totally brilliant. Like you are going anywhere with that. "Women" do many things. Some of them just suck suckers dry. Want to go ahead and take the chance of having your heart broken and your wallet depleted? Be my guest. Just listen the creature who isn't even denying that he is a known troll.

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T08:13:33Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#3f681dde-3562-4371-b69e-954282099638 2009-05-19T07:34:35Z 2009-05-19T07:34:35Z

Isaac: The girl likes you. She is playing with you and she is testing you. She wants to see what kind of man you are and how you respond, both good and bad within an increasingly intimate rapport. Women do this, even if they aren't aware of it, even if they don't acknowledge it. What you do in this situation is to be genuine, and to show her the man that you are and are becoming. Be yourself: don't invest too heavily emotionally yet.... It will work out the way it does one way or another But always be yourself. Enjoy the dance.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-19T07:34:35Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#475288b5-0fc0-4a77-a14a-135fe374cc36 2009-05-19T07:29:48Z 2009-05-19T07:29:48Z

3:27am Check. Lab Note: Hermit Lady does not realize she has been on late at night almost every night for the last several months. Diagnosis: Lost All Perspective Syndrome.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-19T07:29:48Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#55626ea4-1e2f-4dc3-863a-4747bb8ed740 2009-05-19T07:17:23Z 2009-05-19T07:17:23Z

Oh, yeah. And you know I HATE that The Secret crap.

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T07:17:23Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#d2c0a185-aacf-440b-9f30-00556709f07f 2009-05-19T07:16:05Z 2009-05-19T07:16:05Z

Geez, dude. Your timeline is fucked up. I lost my job last Tuesday. And WTF? Are you keeping a log of my times in & times out? Man, you have a seriously impaired life.

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T07:16:05Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#fcb3d257-4700-461f-9776-30d3a48de303 2009-05-19T07:13:43Z 2009-05-19T07:13:43Z

Sorry, Isaac. But this creature is one of my favorite trolls. You have my opinion. Make of it whatever you will. But the "Old Bat" didn't get to be where she is without having gone around the block more than once. http://people.tribe.net/029dc809-6dec-4d41-becb-57f62b149a67/photos/a869ced7-60cf-43ed-a581-317981e27b97

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T07:13:43Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#6d463245-a278-4d83-b497-c583418ad16f 2009-05-19T07:13:00Z 2009-05-19T07:13:00Z

It's not 3:10 am where I am! And! Losing your job three weeks ago doesn't explain the last several months chickadee! If you watch the Secret, use astrology and Tribe, I bet you will get a new job within....a day! Fucking Magic is great!

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-19T07:13:00Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#2b13cd09-de86-47a6-96be-2e84e436e8d8 2009-05-19T07:06:03Z 2009-05-19T07:06:03Z

LOL. For as much as you are on here, one can only wonder what sort of <cough> job <cough> you have. It is common knowledge now that I lost my job last week, so WTF is your excuse? Oh, yeah, and LOP and LAP sound about right for your conditions. LOL! Oh, that's another one ~ LOL. Get used to that one. You generate it.

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T07:06:03Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#1c40f991-63a7-4bce-a576-fd86f9adb4a0 2009-05-19T06:48:55Z 2009-05-19T06:48:55Z

Sorry Old Bat: some of us who work for a living rather than spending their time blathering on the internet 24/7 like yourself - an LAP - sometimes make spelling mistakes.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-19T06:48:55Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#b9ba09fc-f2f8-4469-8610-fd54fbf3e1d4 2009-05-19T06:05:38Z 2009-05-19T06:05:38Z

<and has LOP - Lost All Perpspective > How did the "O" get into that, genius?

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T06:05:38Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#89ab3fb4-128e-478a-9cc6-6569b312c64e 2009-05-19T06:04:27Z 2009-05-19T06:04:27Z

Isn't he just the cutest? Whatever. If you are smart, you won't waste your time with a gal with a boyfriend clearly stringing you along for what you do for her. But, hey. You may need to play this out and find out for yourself. In which case, listen to the troll.

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T06:04:27Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#716423f8-baeb-453a-b4df-f749da4a2141 2009-05-19T05:57:28Z 2009-05-19T05:57:28Z

Don't listen to her Isaac: her soul shrivels from spending too much time blathering on the internet and has LOP - Lost All Perpspective - a new disease caused by the internet that triggers ultradumbness in humans.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-19T05:57:28Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#826e2677-7c23-4913-8879-6721f1af563c 2009-05-19T05:53:35Z 2009-05-19T05:53:35Z

And you are an alt of a troll. Fabulous recommendation, Synergy/VickZ/Guru of Handiholds ~ still love your little baby animals, though. ,pet, pet> Isaac. Listen to me or not. I am a straight-shooter and a woman of the world. She has you charmed for her amusement and benefit. It is clear from what you described. All take and no give. WAKE UP! And move on.

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T05:53:35Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#24657738-bb2c-4e98-aaae-eee1beabff43 2009-05-19T05:21:07Z 2009-05-19T05:21:07Z

Don't listen to the Leo HermitLady Isaac: she likes to pull wings off things and doesn't believe in wuv.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-19T05:21:07Z amiablehermit http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#81b13710-e4e4-49de-9bb8-d4a84e26797c 2009-05-19T05:16:32Z 2009-05-19T05:16:32Z

Horse shit. Isaac ~ I hate to tell you this, but you are what is called a sucker for a line. She's using you. It is just that simple. She is doing what she does and how she does it because you let her. You need to say NEXT ~ now.

amiablehermit 2009-05-19T05:16:32Z $item.owner.firstName http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#88b6c630-512d-4c78-89c6-aceb4fb7ed27 2009-05-18T19:54:50Z 2009-05-18T19:54:50Z

She does like you - she wouldn't be doing what she does if she didn't. It doesn't have much at all to do with her being Aquarian. It appears you need to cultivate a bit more self-possession. You are very taken with her obviously and yet, there is no need for you to get bent out of shape when she's busy and incommunicado. Make your own way in your own life and it appears she might end up being part of it in some fashion. Cross that bridge when you come to it. Live long and prosper.

$item.owner.firstName 2009-05-18T19:54:50Z Isaac http://aquarians.tribe.net/thread/46663bdf-09bd-45cf-969f-07cb6bcd45f1#963e61e9-d17e-411b-96d7-41f3cb80ccde 2009-05-18T07:37:01Z 2009-05-18T07:37:01Z

Hi im a male pisces sun with venus in aquarius I got to know this female Aquarius sun with venus in Capricorn friend and we been really getting closer at first we just started to click and things went well, not SO close but closer than a casual aquantance She has a boyfriend but lately we have been hanging out a lot because we have classes together and got really closer when we are alone together we tend to flirt a lot and she touches me a LOT (grab my arms, rest her feet on my knees, putting her head on my lap, kissing me on the cheek wehn shes really happy, she even tells me things like how even though theres a goal keeper that doesnt mean I cant make a goal-meaning i can win her love from her boyfriend) Does she really like me or is she just toying around with me? the thing is that she tends to flirt with me when we are doing school work (and most of the time I am the one helping her) and whenever she gives me this loving vibe that i cant get enough of, ive been slowly doing more and more favors for her (buy her medicine when shes sick, help her on her hw, i even wrote a whole essay for her) then wen she doesnt need me for anything she doesnt text or call. I do call her and text her but she is always busy with something else I feel so loved and feel as though she really likes me when we are together,The only time we do meet is when we are doing school work But i feel so detached and feel like strangers when she says shes busy whenever i ask to meet for coffee or something as a aquarian female does she really like me? or is she just playing games with me so that she can use me for school work etc? i feel so lost

Isaac 2009-05-18T07:37:01Z