You need to learn how to walk in the the other direction of the rut you are furnishing;

and to accept people as they are;

as well as yourself,

and do those things that feed your spirit rather than diminish it.

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~V~

One of the things I have done to overcome some of the Aquarian traits I dislike is use my moon sign to my advantage. My moon is Pisces, it couldn't be more opposite then my sun and has caused a lot of confusion in my younger years. However I know now when I'm feeling emotion it's the moon sign and I try to use it as much as possible for balance. I for one have never found myself too aloof but I can strike with that Aquarius tongue which can be cold and sharp, these days I try my best to avoid that behavior. I think as an Aquarius I get really sick of fake contrived liars, it's just to much of a comprise to be a part of that so I draw the line there. I have also found many people even in the Pagan community are just full of shit and will take you for a ride if they can. You just have to spot who they are if you're able and keep that in mind when interacting with them.

Hawkeyes advice is really really good too, just try to be accepting to others. That's helped me so much in the last few years. Also try not to detach if you can, at least for me that can be the kiss of death!