I think Cancers are alright...I've only slept with one femaloid Cancer ...she was quite divine. We couldn't commun icate fer shit but the love and sex was A-OK. She taught me to be alittle more integrated in intimate relations in spite of the communication of the gigantic MIS kind.

I've connected more with Cancer Males over the years - don't seem to have a problem communicating with them. They can be very nurturing and kinda sensitive.

Maybe for starters, you could ramp up yer sex drive (and if yer anything like me, it's not the prime directive of your being ...until it very much is) and fuck his brains out. He may very well teach you some things more emotional and body based in interhumanoid relations.

BUt you have to train him to understand you are an independent woman and don't need to screw 24/7 to have an emotional bond. Maybe you can have an influence on him in some way, perhaps in not having to filter everything through one's emotions.

Perhaps you can both learn about balance together

~V~

as an aquarian, you blend with everyone... that's you're nature. typical laws don't apply... and what kind of aquarian are you if you stick to the standard way of thinking... "a works with b, but not with c". if you're worried about whether or not this will last forever or whether or not this will be a "harmonious" connection, you're denying your innate understanding that a) nothing lasts forever, and b) life's meant to be experienced. enjoy.

i like exio's answer a lot..., BUT...

just be aware of any emotional blackmail. (this could apply to any relationship, really, but i experienced it most with a cancer.) be compassionate, but don't compromise your true self.

Ugh, I know how your feeling. I have this friend and he's made no effort to cover up the fact that he likes me, a lot. He's a cancer and has a pisces moon and an aries ascendant. He is SO intense!!! So much so that at times that I feel smothered. I keep telling him that I don't think we should go out because I just don't think we would get along....like you stated above, he is definitely more physical and sexual than I am, and I even have a scorpio moon! Plus, there is a part of me that doesn't quite trust his intentions, part of me thinks that he only wants the physical aspect of the relationship while I want/need the whole package not just the sex. I just don't know what to do with him! LOL!
:/

I just married a Cancer.. So all I can say is YAY.