Bet the girl has a crush? On Aquarius? Who do you love?

yup...the few aqua "lovers" i've had were really just good buddies w/ benefits. but that was perfectly fine with me.
now leo...aaahhhh why can't i just walk away?

my first love was also an Aquarian but we didn't have a real relationship, in fact we ignored each other to the max but annoyingly, i still felt for him, against my wishes... o.0

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this second one, i don't know... i went out with him cuz i was relieved to meet someone who's not overly fixated on sex... but then i discovered that he was oh so goodieeee

im the same.... im an aquarius female........ i fancy someone but i ignore them by treating them like a friend..... dosen't make sense but thats wot i do when they do get to know of my crush.... i go all silent and distant, i begin to observe them so much, which isn't heatlhy i always want to know both sides of there personality... weird ...... an so do things to get to them............ weird! i know

<I can't handle the fact that someone else likes me>

Yeah, why would someone like me and actually want to love me? lol. RUN, don't let them get too close. But like someone else said...then you turn around to say ok and their gone.

Geez, are we funny or what?

I haven't noticed manipulation as an Aquarian trait per se. One of my soul mates is this way, but he has a Mars, Sun, Saturn stellium in his 1st house so he has a huge ego and thinks he knows everything (and all that Mars energy that wants to move everyone else to do it his way). So he can try to act manipulative (he is Cap moon 12th house no less), but basically I just blow him off and do what I want (I'm his Lilith so he expects this anyway). Does that work on other people? Yes, it does. People just see his looks and confidence and get bowled over. Actually, I find it very funny. It's very unAquarian. They are usually brutally honest about everything no matter whether it hurts your feelings or not. It's hard to be that way and be manipulative.

I think if I could live outdoors year round and be dry I would be content, having my own cave with a hot spring would be even better......

but I grew up living indoors, and I tolerate it. It's hard to live outside in Ohio in the winter, and just as challenging in Oregon during the rainy season...... I love the rain an all, but I also like to be warm and dry.....

I completely agree with everyone else about the love me leave me love me cycle. I have known my Aquarian friend for 31 years. He has always shown up to tease me, or get close to me, not physically, (although I would love it if he did now). I am older than he is, (only 3 years tho)so I never really saw him in "that" way. Then, all of a sudden, I looked at him, and he is a very handsome man, that I have JUST NOTICED. He will talk to me about anything and everything except us. I just got his email from him and covered him with new emails, jokes etc. and he has sent me some in return, each with a sexual connotation or sexual content. Is that a clue?? I am a Gemini, May 26th, he is Aquarius, Feb 15. He touches me, answered the phone in the movies for me, but tell me how he feels?? nope. I get that tho. I haven't told him how I feel, but being a Gemini I just assume that a person knows that I like them, just because I give them lots of attention. But I don't want to scare him off. I admit that I test him to see how he'll react to something I say or do, and when I invite him places, he will go. Not dating type places, we have children that are the same age, mine are girls, his are boys, so school stuff, or Halloween parties, or Christmas parties that the children can attend. He hangs with me the whole time tho, and I test that too; I walk off to talk to someone else, and he waits for me, and will then follow me to the next "whatever". I like games, but I like knowing what I'm playing!!

ooopsy

thing ~ thinking

Clipped from Linda Goodman's Sun Signs:

"It's when he acts as though he doesn't like you that he's close to being hooked, and the reason is elementary- simple logic. The Aquarian water bearer likes everybody. Everyone is his friend. He'll even refer to his worst enemy as "my friend." So it means something when he says he doesn't like someone. Just what it means may take some study. The various nuances can be complicated."

SO...
"It's when he acts as though he doesn't like you that he's close to being hooked"

What the hell does that mean?!

If I don't like a person, I'd ignore them, or sabotage them (I've never done the latter).
Of course that doesn't mean Aquarius is going to do offensive stuff when he likes someone, huh?

I think I'm going to choke if a guy gets all mushy and tells me he loves me every other minute...

All I want is openness and "depth"...
By "depth" I mean, the capacity to fearlessly go down the tunnels of your psyche and mine...
and we can be best friends in the whole world forever...

You want friendship? NO PROBLEMO! You've got it! Even if we break up, I will be here for you. Anytime you need help with anything, I will try my best to smooth things out for you. If I can. (However if you fake friendship for ulterior motives, I will do everything I can to ruin you. Hell I will take up black magic if that's what it takes.)

I agree with what some of you have said about Cancer Moon. I am staying the f..k away from them. The guys, UGH! They act like babies and get whiney "boohooo" even the freaking triple Aquarius!!! When you try to plumb their depressive psyche, with the intention of identifying blocks, they get belligerent about your prying... When you need a shoulder to cry on they'll make you shut the fuck up... I HATE THEM!